As I wrote down these words in the peace and quiet of my hotel room, I couldn’t help but pour my heart out about the relationship topic. So, what precisely is a situationship? Google defines a unique bond that lies between friendship and romance.
Many individuals in this modern era are choosing to embrace casual relationships. Upon reading that, it is clear that it does not resonate with me. I’ve often pondered the futility of investing precious time and energy in someone who lacks certainty about the relationship in the first place. It seems that by idealizing the bare minimum, our potential for a great date is being diminished. And how can I be certain of that? Having experienced it personally, like the Bali sunset, where at first it may feel like you’re dancing in the moonlight, but it is not a touching love story.
Setting a high standard and being true to ourselves like the flowing wind are essential when it comes to matters of the heart. Embrace our desires and aspirations without doubt, while staying grounded in reality. Create a non-negotiable list and explore into the depths of our attachment style to gain insight and benefit us in the world of relationships. Once the step is set, engage in meaningful conversation. The power of communication has truly rescued me from situationship. To inquire about someone and seek understanding within the first month. There is a certain discomfort that accompanies the necessity of this. Engaging in conversation provides clarity and avoids the guessing game, preventing the idealization of potential.
Through the art of communication, I arrive at a logical conclusion. Like a phantom in the night, I dissipate into the petals of twilight, shedding what no longer resonate with my essence. In the endless expanse of the world, there exists an individual who possesses unwavering confidence. I fly away like a white petal to avoid rashly enduring destruction. The ability to express one’s feelings and get one’s wants met is something incredible worth to me. The needs of each person are important and varied. Don’t disregard its importance; instead, communicate it to build the relationship’s strength and vitality from the ground up. But first and foremost, cultivate a strong, happy, and nourishing connection with yourself and learn to let go something that is no longer serving you.